Hi, I’m Tuesday
So, fitting in… it’s such a strange concept actually. If you think about it, we’ve been trained to ‘fit in’ from birth. As a little girl I was exposed to endless fairy tales of what love looks like and of course Barbie dolls. When I got older fitting it was about having the right phone, the right brand of clothing, the right hairstyle and hair texture. When I reached adulthood it was about what car I drove, where I stayed (have I moved out of my parents’ place yet?), what job I had, and, of course, am I married yet? OH MY FLIPPING POTATO CAKES; who actually cares?!
I followed the music, the moon told me to.
In the weekend of VDJ, Durban is filled with a lot of fun you can think of and hotels fully booked by traveling guests whom like to experience the VDJ at first hand experience. I however on the other hand did not feel the need of going out, and so I bought snacks that will last me the weekend and watch movies as I had no intensions of being part of the VDJ fun.
VALUES OVER FEELINGS
I am preparing for the 2017 Soweto Marathon > #AyeyeSowetoMarathon.
It's a Tuesday morning and I have planned to go for a run. My dad sends me to our neighbors to sort out our electricity and as soon as I step outside the house, I feel the cold. It is very cold.....
Rejection gives direction by @shynoma
According to the dictionary Rejection can be defined as the act of pushing someone or something away. One may experience rejection from one's family of origin, a friend, or a romantic partner, and the resulting emotions can often be painful. Rejection might be experienced on a large scale or in small ways in everyday life.
Take back your Power!
Each morning, you have the opportunity to edit and rearrange your life. Do not rely on the world to pump life, love and hope into you. Life is personal work. Instead of depending on your circumstances, or reacting to what others are doing around you, know that all the time, you have the power to determine the shape, direction and quality of your life.
10 Ways to kick bad Habits
10 Ways to kick bad Habits
Over time, we may develop habits that do not serve us. Habits that are harmful to our health, hinder our performance at work, offset our efforts for a better life or destroy our relationships. With some willpower, strength, courage and support, we can all kick these bad habits and start the year on a clean slate.
We all need multiple income streams
Blog by Thabo Mmotong We all need multiple income streams
Not all of us get the opportunity to earn a six-figure salary or to run a multimillion rand business.
Most of us depend on a single monthly income [if we are lucky to even get a job] – and our income is never enough to afford us the life and financial freedom we long for.
A couple of weeks ago I met a lady who also runs her own business. Nothing strange as I meet a lot of ladies who own businesses all the time. What I found strange though was the name of her business which at first seeing it you would think the business is a financial institution when it actually isn’t. After a few exchange of words, I suggested she rebrands. Firstly because the business doesn’t resonate with the services she offers but also because when she bought the building it was already named and she just continued with the name.
What are your expectations for 2017?
The word expectation is defined as; a strong belief that something will happen or be the case. There is power in expectations. Your expectations will dictate your work ethic, the decisions that you need to make, the thoughts you need to meditate on as well as the people you need to surround yourself with.
Walk with integrity
Integrity means the quality of being honest, truthful and having strong moral principles. I believe it is also a fundamental pillar of one’s character. In this day and age a lot of people struggle to walk with integrity. It is easy to make promises, particularly in times of excitement and good feelings. But most times, the circumstances under which we have to fulfill those promises might be a far cry from what they were when we made them. When the time comes to go through with what we said, it might no longer be easy and convenient. Integrity is therefore one’s capacity to keep one’s promises, even when it’s not convenient.